I Corinthians 12:7 (New International Version)
Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.
Ephesians 4:12 (New International Version)
to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up
1 Corinthians 14:26c (Amplified Bible)
[But] let everything be constructive and edifying and for the good of all.
1 Corinthians 7:7a (New International Version)
I wish that all men were as I am.
So as the verse about angels is more than likely hyperbole, so too are these passages.
Likewise the passages in I Corinthians 14 that are indirectly cross-referenced with Acts 2:4 are held to the standard of the tongues being real languages, it is not surprising that most verses are not cross-referenced, because Paul is speaking of something different here. He uses two forms of the word in this chapter and nowhere else in his writings. He seems to be distinguishing between real (plural) and unknown languages (singular), giving credence to the likes of John MacCarthur who believe he is speaking of gibberish, a hold-over from the pagan days of the Corinthian believers lives; estatic speech that pre-date Christ by nearly 200 years or more. This is further bolstered by the sometimes overly descriptive Amplified Version using the word [strange] at times were most other translations us the singular.
Even if Paul was not referring to the historicity of the Corithian culture, he is consistently hammering the point home to the reader that this type of tongue is not edifying (vv. 2, 4-6, 13, 17, 19) and therefore is wrong or wrongly applied in the assembly because earlier in this letter he explained what the 'gifts' are to be used for, "for the common good." (I Corinthians 12:7) The Amplified Version's reading of Chapter 14, verse 26 gives further credence that he is being corrective with this portion of the letter; "What then brethren is [the right course]? He answers his own question in the final sentence of the verse; "[but] let EVERTHING be constructive and edifying and for the good of all." His most stinging rebuke of this practice in the Corinthian Church comes in verses 9 and 10.
I Corinthians 14:9-10 (New International Version)
So it is with you. Unless you speak intelligible words with your tongue, how will anyone know what you are saying? You will just be speaking into the air. Undoubtedly there are all sorts of languages in the world, yet none of them is without meaning.
Some would say that Paul practiced this himself, so how couold he then be speaking against it. All the more since Paul KNEW the 'right way', and if there were those who were doing it the 'right way' along with those who were stuck in their paganism, both were wrong for doing it in the assembly without interpretation! However the verses most often quoted as proof Paul had this 'private prayer language' comes from verses 14 and 15. But Paul in verse 14 is no acknowledging this, rather he is making a hypothetical statement. How can I be sure? Well, he follows this immediately with a question on what to do about it. If verse 14 was not problematical for him, why would he need to ask a question that seeks a remedy? (v. 15a) It is the second half of the verse that gives us his answer on how he would pray, not in a tongue, but in his spirit and his mind (v.15b), which is exactly opposite to the ecstatic speech of pagan worship, full of mindless chatter.
Let us not forget that Paul drives the point home that he speaks in tongues more than anyone (v.18), but would rather instruct others with intelligible words than do that (v.19), and immediately calls on his Corithinan brothers to stop acting like children! (v.20) If a 'private prayer language' is what is being referred to here, Paul is certainly not looking at it in a positive light by referring to those who use it as immature! Looking back to Paul's example of how he would do it ("I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my mind"), he gives us a perfect jumping off point to now look at the second part of this, 'praying in the spirit'.
...more to come, and here it is...
In New Testament times, the first mention of this concept seems to be rendered by Jesus in His conversation with the woman at the well (John 4: 1-26). Jesus tells the Samaritan;
John 4:23-24 (New International Version)
"Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth."
Is this referring to a 'private prayer language'? In order to answer this question we must also look at what has to be considered the plumbline for prayer in the New Testament; how Jesus taught His disciples to pray.
Matthew 6:5-15 (New International Version)
Prayer
"And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him."This, then, is how you should pray: " 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.' For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
Luke 11:1-13 (New International Version)
Jesus' Teaching on Prayer
One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples."He said to them, "When you pray, say: " 'Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us. And lead us not into temptation.' "
Then he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and he goes to him at midnight and says, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, because a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have nothing to set before him.'
"Then the one inside answers, 'Don't bother me. The door is already locked, and my children are with me in bed. I can't get up and give you anything.' I tell you, though he will not get up and give him the bread because he is his friend, yet because of the man's boldness he will get up and give him as much as he needs.
"So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
"Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
Nothing here about using a different language. Bibles printed in Greek, use Greek words in these passages. English Bibles, English words, Spanish Bibles, Spanish words (I checked, I own all three!). So then what is worshiping or praying in spirit and truth? I believe Jesus answered this question in the very next verse.
"God is Spirit", said Jesus. Unlike the gods of the pagans that are idols that are prayed to; the One True God is spirit, so mwe must pray to Him in the same way. Not to statues that suppose His likeness, but to Him who is spirit and unseen by man (John 1:18; 6:46). Just as well you do not have to go to a particular place in a particular city to pray to Him (The Samaritan woman said, "You Jews claim we must worship in Jerusalem"), but rather in spirit it can be done anywhere, at anytime, in anyway, and Jesus' preference eas for us to be alone and in secret (Matthew 6:6).
Taking another look at I Corinthians 14:2, certainly sounds like it could be speaking of a 'private prayer language', but this is a bit problematical when compared to the plumbline established by Jesus. However the NIV gives us a clue to this mystery as it shows an alternate way of translating the second sentence of verse 2:
I Corinthians 14:2 (New International Version)
For anyone who speaks in a tonguea]" style="line-height: 0.5em; ">[a] does not speak to men but to God. Indeed, no one understands him; he utters mysteries ...b]"
b.Or by the Spirit
This alternate is also included in the Amplified Version;
I Corinthians 14:2 (Amplified Bible)
For one who speaks in an [unknown] tongue speaks not to men but to God, for no one understands or catches his meaning, because in the [Holy] Spirit he utters secret truths and hidden things [not obvious to the understanding].
Now we are getting somewhere!
This alternate translation causes this verse to be a better fit with already cross-referenced verses in Romans 8:23, 26-27, as well as I Corinthians 2: 10-16. Even closer to the plumbline of John 4: 23-24 is another cross-referenced verse to these;
Ephesians 6:17-18 (New International Version)
Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.
Praying in spirit and in truth could not be much clearer here.
So praying in the spirit is quite Biblical when understood in its proper context, yet that is still not quite what is going on in Chapter 14. As I mentioned earlier, I am sure there were believers in Corinth who were 'doing it the right way' compared with others that were still allowing themselves to be swept up in gibberish that was a hold over from their pre-Christian days, so yes a 'private prayer language' may be partially in view here, but it is not our own. It is when we try to make it ours that we (and the Corinth believers then) go wrong. How is that? The answer can best be explained by Scripture in Romans 8. From these verses it will become clear whose 'private prayer language' we are talking about.
First look to verse 11, it is God's Spirit that lives in us. Verse 16 tells us that God's Spirit communicates with our spirit. Verse 23 tells us that our spirit 'groans inwardly' as we wait for the fullness to come (and to whom does it groan inwardly?). Finally verse 26 shows us how the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness and intercedes for us with 'groans (to the Father) that words cannot express'.
So our spirit communicates to the Holy Spirit (groaning inwardly) so when we don't know what to pray for in our spirit ot God, the Holy Spirit speaks to the Father and Son with groans in a language we do not understand! This is best examplified in the Amplified Versions rendition of the second half of I Corinthians 14:2;
For one who speaks in an [unknown] tongue speaks not to men but to God, for no one understands or catches his meaning, because in the [Holy] Spirit he utters secret truths and hidden things [not obvious to the understanding].
Now apply this to those difficult verses of Chapter 14. Verse 2 properly understood is that sometimes these 'groans' are verbalized in an unintelligible language (I have heard this many, many times with my own ears from others, and I prefer to believe that it is sincere and not gibberish), it is an audible version of the 'private prayer language' within the Godhead; Trinitarian Communication!
Verse 4; when this happens, is it self-edifying? You bet! I remember the first time it happened to me, I felt like I was still in control of my body but yet something was coming out of me that I was not producing, and I was thinking, 'WOW! This is so cool!'
Paul says in verse 13 that you should pray for an interpretation because only the Godhead would know what is being said, and no man with the gift of interpretation (of real languages) would be able to do so. That is why Paul makes a hypothetical statement in verse 14, because he knows it is either the Holy Spirit who is communicating or is some pagan gibberish, so when he is praying he prays as he explains in verse 15.
With this, a word of caution comes from what can be drawn out of verse 17; "You may be giving thanks well enough..." The implication is that you may not be as well. If you feel in control of your body when this is happening, it will be the Holy Spirit, remembering that God is a God of order, not confusion (I Corinthians 14:33), and you can be assurred that this is positive communication. However, if you feel as if your body has been 'taken over', beware, it may not be of God and therefore could be cursing instead of blessing.
Finally, seeing this in the proper light of Trinitarian Communication, if it begins to happen in the assembly and no interpretation follows, you must keep quiet and speak to God in silence (I Corinthians 14:28). I am sure there were cases in Corinth as there are today where people attempt to manifest these things outwardly in their own effort, and this verse is designed to keep those in check. If it is truly the Holy Spirit, He would not communicate with the Father and Son in a manner that goes against His Word, because again as verse 33 states;
I Corinthians 14:33a (New International Version)
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.
May the peace of the Lord be with you on this day,
Bondservant